White stuff on lips after lip balm?

Can someone please help me find a way to stop the white film/layer forming on the sides and inner part of my lips - I’m DESPERATE. It happens almost every time I apply a lip product but I swear I’ve tried everything. I feel so gross.

• I stay hydrated

• I exfoliate with a toothbrush most days if not everyday at times

• I put on a thicker lip balm at night (papaw)

• I make sure to apply a thinner lip balm during he day (atm Burt’s bees), and not too much of it

• It’s not foundation/makeup residue

• It happens regardless of whether I’m talking a lot

• It wipes away easily with no pain, redness, bleeding

There has to be a solution. It happens with lip balms, ointments, lip gloss, and lipstick.